Unlocking Authentic Connections: The Power of 'Like' Over 'Love' in Relationship

In a world where love often takes center stage, I find myself leaning towards a different sentiment – "like." Yes, you read that right. The simplicity of "like" holds a profound significance for me, and here's why.

I'm not interested in grand declarations of love if they come with an agenda to change who I am. Love should never be a justification for belittling or causing harm. Criticism, presented as a means of improvement, is a thin disguise for control.

What truly matters in any relationship is the foundation of liking someone. Genuine liking involves trust, dependability, and enjoying each other's company. Before you express your love, take a moment to learn to like the person as they are.

Liking is a choice that goes beyond familial obligations. While you might love certain individuals due to ties like parenthood or siblings, liking them for who they are is a conscious decision. Reflect on your feelings towards both groups – those you love and those you genuinely like.

Today, I encourage you to either foster a genuine liking for the people you love or revaluate whether your love for them is sincere. Love can sometimes feel more like a societal expectation than a heartfelt emotion.

The term "like" may lack the grandiosity associated with "love," but its essence holds more meaning. This blog isn't concerned with the extent of your love for your spouse. Instead, it suggests that the strength of a relationship can be measured by the depth of genuine liking.

For those who comprehend, cultivating the ability to like people is a habit formed by keeping your heart open to respecting differences rather than passing judgment.

So, let's shift the narrative from the overwhelming emphasis on love to the art of liking – an authentic connection that transcends societal norms. Unlock the power of "like" in your relationships and witness the transformative impact on your connections.

Share this if you resonate with the idea of authentic connections over obligatory expressions of love.